Heads and Tails

We all have standards & preferences when choosing a man or woman of interest. Women can be very detailed with their preferences, depending on what that woman really likes, determines her attraction to a man. Some women prefer handsome, tall, dark skin, light skin, athletic build etc. I've actually had girls tell me "Rashaan you are very handsome and I would give you some if you weren't so skinny." This was back in my younger days of course where you ladies at now LOL! The ideal man must meet that woman's physical standard in order to even be considered. Presentation is everything, how you dress and carry yourself makes the difference between having swag and being lame. Women love swag and just so I'm clear, swag isn't taught its either in you or its not.

Copyright: Conrado

A woman knows from the first time she meets a man if she is going to offer him some tail. Its never a matter of if, its just a matter of when the opportunity presents itself. Now men, we are very visual when it comes to woman, so our standards are similar, but slightly different. Most men don't care if you tall, short, light, dark, ugly or cute, just make sure that woman has some tail! Don't get me wrong some men are into nice legs, breast and flat stomachs, but a woman knows if her wagon is dragging a man is going to holler at her, regardless of how the rest of her body may look. No disrespect to the women, but think about why you see so many unattractive, uncomfortably built women with nice tails....pregnant. That woman put that a## on some man and at the end of the day we figure its all the same when the lights go out.

Men have two heads while women have one head and one tail. We as men have been chasing tail for a longtime, but tend to make bad decisions when we don't use both heads in dealing with women. My grandmother once told me god rest her soul, "A mans biggest downfall in life is a woman's a## and a liquor glass". BBD said it best "you can't trust a big butt and a smile that girl is poison." Women know we love some tail, so they use that hairy or bald headed monster between their legs to their advantage. Women can giveth and women can taketh away. Fellas we must be stronger and remember what looks good to you isn't always good for you. We can't give in every time a woman tries to mesmerize us with the tail. Women need to be told NO, feel rejected sometimes and understand that their tail is no more important than our head.